When I’m hanging out with my close guy friends my favorite thing to do is pick their brains about women and dating. I call it the “hands on” research. My male friend recently shared with me an interesting dating experience he had with a woman that he referred to as “the deal breaker”.

If you have reached the point in the date where sex may be an option, you need to be fully ready. This means ladies it’s time to give your girl a shave, put on a sexy dress, and ooze with sex appeal. If your not wanting to cave in to the sexual desires just yet, then don’t worry so much about shaving and keep your pants on!

My friend and his date ended up getting naked and were in full sex mode. However, he seemed to be doing all the work the whole time. In his words, “she continued to lay there like a dead starfish”. Big no no ladies!! Sex is an activity where both counterparts should be putting in an equal effort. If your not that into him or her then ask yourself, why are you getting naked in the first place? If this is something you have planned and can’t wait to experience, then step it up a notch and rock his world!

Sex should be equally rewarding for both parties, and each individual should be breaking a sweat! After that evening my friend was like NEXT.